Building self confidence

When was the last time you said "I LOVE Myself & I AM Enough"

A lot of people get it confused with liking & loving themselves. Liking is when you see a beautiful flower then pick it to show it off and carry it with you. You hear people walking by you saying "I like your flower" (It puts smiles on faces). Loving is when you plant a seed then you nurture it, feed it and watch it blossom into a beautiful flower. You feel comfort each time you lean in to smell it. Sometimes you catch yourself saying " look at my babies" in excitement when you see them grow.

​Liking yourself is when you have to get involved in different types of trends and be materialistic just to feel noticed. (hairstyles, fashion, cars, etc.) - wants

Loving yourself is when you take care of things that you need to better yourself. Making sure everyday that you are happy with what god gave you. - needs

You should be telling yourself everyday how much you love your flaws. Flaws to me is only illusions that our minds play when we express dissatisfaction.  If you tell yourself all the time that nothing goes right for you (bad luck) then guess what? that is exactly what will come (negative energy). You make your thoughts a reality by manifesting it, so why not say daily affirmations :

• I am beautiful/handsome
• I am worthy
• I love myself divinely
• I love my body
• I love my hair
• I will gain enough knowledge to get that job or pass a test

 I must admit that when I was taught this I didn't believe it will work because I didn't understand or know my inner self. Get to know that person who is waiting to shine. ( your authentic self)  

I now know how to listen to my intuition because it never steered me wrong. Give yourself a daily affirmation to uplift your day. Only you can change something you dislike/like into something you love. 

• Stop being a negative thinker that makes everything harder 
• Learn how to be a positive thinker that is lighter and easier
• Transmute negative energy into positive energy

Smile... It's good for you